2008

Wow! Time really flies...it is 2008 and I really wonder what does the year 2008 holds for me!! Have I a good year ahead or is there more challenges that I have to go through.

Looking at my last post...i was crude with my words....I was not thinking and did not mince my words. I was and am still feeling extremely sad that yet another family has been pulled apart and life destroyed. There were too many open doors and I would also believe that when a crack in the relationship happens, both parties are at fault.

I've known a couple who went through the same problem, except that her hubby truly love the kids. She was very fortunate that God brought the husband back one and a half years later, after much prayers. Much changes have taken place in their lifes. Character has been polished and it is shining now. God had actually used this situation to bring the entire family back into His Kingdom. The hands of God and all His works are so marvellous. I am always in awe with His wisdom and planning.

It is just like in the situation of my sis-in-law. God had sent her a son (now aged almost 2yo) to safe her life. Before this, she was kind of suicidal. Infact, she tried to take her life a few times, one of it was because her husband smoke behind her back. Sigh! I have yet to see what is God doing through all of this. The thing is this, if she (my SIL) is not open to God and His moulding, not much can be done. She need to surrender it all to HIM.

I did try talking to my SIL on the possibility of both their character clashing etc. and that she may need to examine herself, however, she seem to have shut things out even claiming that all of us are blaming her for the breakup. This is still the sore moment, I cannot do much but to give her my moral and monetary support whenever I can. How else can I help?